When Allison Kwolek heard Clemson was starting a lacrosse program, her mind went to a different sport. “What I knew about Clemson before I got here was what I saw on TV on Saturdays,” she said.
It’s a natural response for born-and-raised East Coasters like Kwolek, who played lacrosse for William and Mary. Her coaching stints included those at East Coast schools like Dartmouth, Columbia and Richmond.
When she arrived on the Clemson campus for her interview, she immediately saw that the Tigers weren’t just about their three-time national championship football program.
“Softball was the newest sport when I got here, and they were successful right away,” Kwolek said of the softball program, which played its first game in 2020 and went 44-8 the following year. “But when you look at their facility, it's one of the nicest softball stadiums in the country.”
Indeed, McWorter Stadium fits more than 1,000 fans and has a team lounge, locker room, sports medicine room ... the laundry list of amenities sounds similar to those at a five-star wellness retreat.
Kwolek walked by the stadium one day this spring — a sellout. She knows something about sellouts — and state-of-the-art new digs — though. The Tigers packed the house for the first game at Clemson Lacrosse Complex, one of the nation’s only facilities exclusively for women’s lacrosse. It, too, has amenities that read like a wellness retreat. Besides the 1,000 bleacher seats filled with fans, there are offices, a nutrition center, a player lounge and meeting, athletic training and locker rooms. There’s a video board that plays hype videos bringing players to tears before games.
“It's electric being here,” Kwolek said. “From a marketing and promotion standpoint, the in-game video and the production value of our games is significant.”
At some schools, new programs must earn their keep — win, and we’ll talk. At Clemson? They’re building with the expectation that wins and recruits will follow. And they have.
Clemson has spent time in USA Lacrosse Magazine’s Division I Women’s Top 20 the last two seasons. But some of the biggest wins recently have come on the recruiting trail.
On June 28, Alexa Spallina — who initially chose Syracuse over Clemson and Stony Brook, where her father, Joe, coaches — flew south after all. Two days later, her friend and Yellowjackets teammate Aubrie Eisefeld also flipped from Syracuse to Clemson.
Spallina is the No. 1 recruit in the rising senior class, according to Inside Lacrosse. The No. 2 prospect, Emma Penczek, had already committed to Clemson.
Spallina said she loved the facility and college football Saturdays. (Though, she admits, her father and three brothers — Syracuse players Joey, Jake and Brett Spallina — are bigger football fans than she is. Part of Clemson’s recruiting pitch, according to The Post and Courier, was a 15-minute conversation with football coach Dabo Swinney during which he told the three-time USA Lacrosse All-American she could be “the Trevor Lawrence of women’s lacrosse.”
Still, a still-new program like Clemson seemed like a stretch for a player who grew up around the tradition of the game. Her brother, Joey, who was also a top recruit, picked Syracuse in part because of the allure of wearing the program’s legendary No. 22.
But Spallina had a literal front-row seat watching her father turn Stony Brook into a winning program, turning unheralded recruits into All-Americans. Though Spallina is indeed heralded, she liked the idea of playing for a coach who was all about development — of the program, the players and their legacy.
As nice as the raucous football crowds and new facility were, Spallina chose Clemson for Kwolek.
“Having a coach like my dad — and seeing how he turned these three- or four-star recruits into All-Americans — is exactly what Coach Allison is doing,” Spallina said. “I really took that into consideration. You still want to develop at the college level. She’s that coach who can bring me to the next level.”
Spallina’s faith in Kwolek wasn’t just built during on-campus visits. It happened during one of the hardest conversations she had.
The one where she said no.
“I was so on the edge, and she was so respectful about it,” Spallina said.
Grace in the face of failure — and without expectation of a flip, like Spallina and Eisfeld — is also part of Kwolek’s process. Heck, Madison Carter, who was a Clemson assistant for three seasons, was a coveted recruit of hers during her stint at Richmond but chose Penn State.
“I know how hard that phone call is to a coach when you're going to say no, and I don't want to make that harder for them,” Kwolek said. “I’m happy that they made the phone call, and it wasn't through text. I always leave the last conversation, ‘Thank you for taking the time. I know you invested your time and money to look at Clemson, and I wish you the best.’ I don’t want them to think that it damages our relationships.”
It didn’t with Spallina, who will get to live out a lifelong dream of playing with Eisefeld. The two are so close they finish one another’s sentences. On the field, they also know where the other is without looking. They have goals of making NCAA tournaments and winning national championships with Clemson, whose recruiting class was initially ranked No. 4 and is now bolstered by two more five-star players.
Those playoff wins, should they come to fruition, will be as hard-earned as the recruiting trail victories the Tigers have scored in the last nine months.