RECRUIT DAILY OR PERISH.
It’s a common axiom among college lacrosse coaches whose livelihood depends on convincing 16- and 17-year-old athletes to attend their universities and play for their teams. Its origin unknown, the expression has added relevance this time of year — the post-Sept. 1 rush when coaches scurry to procure commitments from high school juniors.
“We’ve had more visits scheduled for the first three weeks of school than we’ve ever had by a long shot,” Brown said. “And that’s to do with Metzy.”
Metzbower didn’t just come with a whiteboard, but also a rolodex. Wherever he has coached — Delaware (1987-89), Princeton (1990-2009), Loyola (2013-14) or North Carolina (2015-23) — high-profile recruits have followed. He put 250,000 miles each on a pair of Toyota Forerunners commuting daily from suburban Philadelphia to Princeton during the school year and traversing the East Coast to evaluate prospects during the summer.
“The bottom line is recruiting. He carried me for 20 years,” Tierney said. “One of the best recruiters in the country who knows every player inside and out. A guy who has won seven championships. A guy who has no ego. There was a gift floating down the river.”
Metzbower was unemployed for a month, but he never stopped working. He helped coach the Long Island Express 2026 team at the NLF Summer Kickoff and the Connecticut 2025 team at the Nike National All-Star Games. He got an up-close look at the best athletes in the class of 2025 as a coach at the Main Stage Lacrosse invitational, a two-day combine in Maryland.
Unattached to a school, Metzbower could engage with them in a way he could not strictly as an evaluator. Every interaction provided another data point.
“Hands-on being able to coach a kid is much better than sitting on a sideline in a chair just evaluating,” said Metzbower, who spent a year as an assistant at Haverford School (Pa.) and two years as the head coach at Malvern Prep (Pa.) in between his stops at Princeton and Loyola. “You get to feel the kid a little differently when you’re trying to coach him in a situation. Does he listen? Does he understand what you’re coaching?”
After coaching at the world championship and informing his team that Metzbower was coming to Denver, Brown joined him and defensive coordinator John Gallant on the recruiting trail. They also ventured north in August to watch redshirt freshman Cody Malawsky play for the Coquitlam (B.C.) Adanacs in the Western Lacrosse Association playoffs.
Metzbower is living temporarily with Tierney in Denver while his wife, Mimi, tries to sell their house in Chapel Hill.
“He’s made a few trips across country already driving back and forth,” Brown said. “The guy loves to drive.”
Metzbower is plenty familiar with Denver. His daughter, Jordan, now the director of lacrosse operations at Towson, graduated from DU in 2021 and was a team manager for the Pioneers for four years. His son, Derek, is a senior at Colorado in nearby Boulder.
Denver and North Carolina have played each other every spring since 2015. Tierney always gushed about the support from his administration.
“I want to be at a place where lacrosse is important,” Metzbower said.