Still, Gait never envisioned at the time and for many years later that coaching would ever be a potential career. That perspective changed after Hall of Fame coach Cindy Timchal offered him an opportunity to be an assistant on the Maryland women’s team. His daughter, Taylor, was about one month old at the time. He said he’d give it a try.
“From there, I knew I wanted to be a coach, and I truly loved it,” Gait said of his years in College Park (Md.), during which he was a part of seven national championship teams.
Gait turned down the first offer to return to his alma mater as the women’s head coach.
“It’s awful cold there,” he told his former teammate Matty Palumb, who at the time was working in Syracuse’s athletic department. Palumb called again a year later, while Gait was floating in a pool at a hotel in Mexico during a corporate retreat with Kroenke Sports Management.
“Don’t say no,” Palumb said. “Don’t say no.”
Gait recalled an interaction when his daughter asked for a Louis Vuitton pocketbook back when the Gaits were living in Colorado while he was coaching the NLL’s Mammoth. It helped clarify his choice to accept the women’s head coach position in 2007. Taylor Gait, who went onto play for her father at Syracuse, was about to go into the eighth grade.
“All my friends have them,” she explained of the luxury request.
“You know what I love about Syracuse?” Gary Gait said. “The people are down to earth. It’s a blue-collar community, the way I grew up, and it felt like home. That’s the reason that I came back. Love the university and I love the people in the community. That’s why I’m still here.”
The decision to take the men’s job didn’t take more than two seconds, Gait said, and was made easier by the fact that he’d be able to stay on campus and continue to help the players he recruited on the women’s lacrosse team. As a part of the transition, Syracuse announced that Caitlin Defliese, who spent the past five years as an assistant on Gait’s staff, would serve as the interim head coach while a national search commenced.
While there has been much speculation as to who Gait would tab to fill out his staff, a reference he made that Pat March was on the road evaluating recruits at summer tournaments, suggests the offensive coordinator’s spot will remain intact. Gait said there would be forthcoming announcements in the next couple days about the men’s staff.
“What I think I pulled away from Syracuse the most in the coaching world was you need to build chemistry, you need to know your players and you need to create a family atmosphere,” he said. “When all those things come together, you can almost put in any Xs and Os, but you’ll come out on top if everybody works as one team, one unit.”
He said he hopes to bring that heightened level of chemistry back to the program, as well as a flair for the dramatic on the field that’s rooted in substance.
Of course, there is another ultimate goal at his alma mater.
“I look forward to the day we can both raise a national championship,” Gait said of the Syracuse men’s and women’s lacrosse programs. “Hopefully that will be very soon.”