Before heading to Washington, D.C., to support her senior captains Nadine Hadnagy and Zoe Stukenberg, who were named finalists for the prestigious Tewaaraton Award, Maryland coach Cathy Reese dropped off her 9-year-old daughter Cayden at her youth lacrosse practice.
Before Cayden shut the car door, she looked at her mom and said, “Mom, I hope Zoe wins.”
After all, the walls of Cayden’s room are covered from floor to ceiling with pictures of Stukenberg. The senior midfielder, who not only graduates with an undefeated season on the field but also a perfect 4.0 GPA in the classroom majoring in biological sciences, has been tutoring Cayden in math. The two have been inseparable.
“Cayden and I are buddies,” said Stukenberg. “When she comes to practice, we joke and play lacrosse together and sometimes I give her a little nudge that she needs to try just as hard in the classroom as she does on the field because she’s a beast.”
At the beginning of the ceremony, families, friends and fans sitting in the theater at the Smithsonian National Museum of the American Indian were touched to hear what Reese thought of Stukenberg.
Sheehan Stanwick Burch, master of ceremonies alongside Joe Beninati, voice of the Washington Capitals and play-by-play commentator for Major League Lacrosse games, introduced Stukenberg by sharing a sentiment Reese had shared with her shortly before Thursday’s celebrations.
“She is who I want my daughter to grow up to be like,” Reese described Stukenberg to Stanwick Burch.
To hear how highly Reese thought of her nearly brought Stukenberg to tears. When she became Maryland’s sixth straight Tewaaraton winner and eighth overall, Stukenberg nearly brought Reese to tears for her kinds words thanking everyone for “the most unbelievable journey” in her acceptance speech.
“Cathy, you can’t cry because then I’m going to cry,” Stukenberg said. “I guess this is the part where I’m going to ramble about how much I love Maryland.”
Reese explained after the ceremony that she felt a big connection between the leadership of Stukenberg and this year’s Spirit of Tewaaraton Award honoree George Boiardi, a four-year starter for Cornell who tragically lost his life in 2004.
Just a year ago, the lady Terps had read, “The Hard Hat: 21 Ways to Be a Great Teammate,” a book that shares the life and legacy of Boiardi, a true teammate for the Big Red. To Reese, Stukenberg is very similar.
“Listen, Zoe, she’s great with everyone. She’s so nice and I think that’s one of the most important characteristics that you can have,” Reese said. “To lead a team by working for her teammates is something I admire. I look at that and I look at my kids coming up [and] I want them to just be good people – and that’s what we have here.
“In college sports and lacrosse in general, there are so many great people that have influenced other people's lives,” Reese continued. “I think sometimes that might be missed out upon a little bit. I look at Zoe and she’s had such a positive impact on my life and so many people around her, whether that’s in the community or her teammates, people at the university [or] people she TA’s for. She does it all.”