Whether it was scoring and assisting goals, providing leadership to his team or simply displaying unmatched dedication to the game, there seems to be no limit to Jeffrey Conner’s impact on the lacrosse field.
That’s why the Strath Haven (Pa.) senior midfielder is the Warrior/US Lacrosse High School Boys’ Mid-Atlantic Player of the Year.
Conner averaged 6.24 points per game in leading the Panthers to the Pennsylvania Interscholastic Athletic Association (PIAA) Class 2A championship game. Along the way, he surpassed 400 career points and posted the best season of his high school career.
“I’ve coached high school lacrosse as a head coach for 33 years,” Strath Haven head coach Jef Hewlings said. “I said two years ago, he could be the best player I ever coached, and at the end of this season, he confirmed it. He committed years ago to become the best lacrosse player he could be, and he didn’t just say that he worked at it. He was always the kid that was staying after practice or showing up early.”
Hewlings credits Conner’s ability and leadership as the reason Strath Haven reached the state championship game this season.
“If you told me this three years ago that I would be the Mid-Atlantic Player of the Year my senior year I probably would not have believed you,” Conner said. “I probably would have told you that you were crazy. A lot of hard work went into it, and a lot of late nights, and so, I’m proud.”
Conner came through with a 156-point senior season, besting his previous season high by 26 points. He finished his high school career with 405 points on 237 goals and 168 assists.
And Conner played some of his best games when it mattered most. He averaged five points per game in the Panthers’ playoff run, including an eight-point game against Trinity (Pa.) and a six-point game against Mars (Pa.) in the state semifinal.
Arguably his most impressive playoff game came during the quarterfinal matchup against 2017 state champ Springfield-Delco (Pa.). With the game on the line, Conner scored an insurance goal late to lead his team to a 12-9 win, and he finished the game with three goals and one assist.
“Coach Hewlings said, ‘We’re just going to give Jeff the ball, and you just got to do what you do, have been doing your whole career,’” Conner said. “I was in the corner when they put two All-Americans on me. Your nerves are running, and the whole crowd is cheering. You know you’re going to get [the ball]. I go back to the basics. I zone out everything and do what I have to do.”
Conner’s leadership was showcased by how he treated his teammates. He made everyone around him better.
“His teammates could have gotten turned off to him being such a good player, but he treated them with respect,” Hewlings said. “Because he did, I think he got more out of them. You got your best kid getting more out of his teammates than perhaps the coaches can get out of those kids.”
Playing the role of a leader was important to Conner. He recalls being less confident as a younger player and wanted to help bring along the underclassmen on his team.
“I used to be in that position,” Conner said. “As a freshman, sophomore and junior, I probably dropped a bunch of passes that I probably should have finished. You just have to instill confidence in every single player to help them deal with that during the season.”
Conner moves on to Charlottesville, Va., where he will play at the University of Virginia next season. And similar to when he stepped onto the field at Strath Haven as a freshman, Conner will have to prove himself.
He plans to go about it the same way.
“I’m going to come in, put as much effort as I can into it,” Conner said. “I want to try to make everyone else play better and just bring whatever I can into the program.”
WARRIOR/US LACROSSE
MID-ATLANTIC BOYS’ PLAYER OF THE YEAR
JEFFREY CONNER
School: Strath Haven (Pa.)
Year: Senior
Position: Midfielder
Coach Jef Hewlings: “To put it in a nutshell, he respects the game. He respects it enough to give the game everything he has.”
Also considered: Kyle Long, Springfield-Delco (Pa.); Jacob Kelly, Calvert Hall (Md.); Jack Myers, Gonzaga (D.C.); Canyon Birch, Manasquan (N.J.); Joey Epstein, Landon (Md.)