Rigger offered to house Watkins for the rest of his high school career, so he could play lacrosse. It was a saving grace for Watkins, who said his life was heading in the wrong direction.
“[Rigger] knew that if I was to leave the city, things weren’t necessarily going to progress the way they should have,” Watkins said. “At the time, I didn’t really understand it. He just showed me the path.”
Staying with Rigger and his family, including Rigger’s son Ben, who was a year older than him, Watkins thrived in school and on the field. Colleges started scouting him and he attended recruiting camps to gain more visibility.
Watkins picked Essex Community College in Baltimore, which boasts one of the nation’s strongest junior college lacrosse programs.
“Left in that situation that he was in, he would not have succeeded,” Rigger said. “He was not on track to be successful in life, when they were doubled up in Clayton. I see that as a success for lacrosse.”
Watkins graduated from Decatur in 2014. In two seasons at Essex, he appeared in 31 games, scoring 31 goals and adding 10 assists.
More importantly, Watkins found a way out his situation. Before leaving, a few days after his final home game at Decatur, he packed up all of the lacrosse sticks he wasn’t taking with him to college. Watkins walked over to the Housing Authority apartments to visit a younger friend who recently latched onto the sport.
Ousman Sy.
Watkins gave Sy a blue STX head, the one the boy still uses today.
“I could have given it to another high-schooler, but they are always switching their sticks,” Watkins said. “I wanted to give it to a kid that I knew would use it.”
Watkins now lives in the Baltimore area, works for a landscaping company and tries to continue playing lacrosse.
“It makes you feel really good about yourself,” he said. “From what I was doing with Don, to where I am now, they’ve definitely helped shape me. It’s been the entire city of Decatur.”
Ousman Sy wants to be a business owner when he grows up. It’ll be simple, he said: He’ll work for a health organization and help give back to the community. He’s also hoping for some schedule flexibility.
“I like that you can be your own boss,” he said. “If you’re a business owner, you can control your own hours.”
Sy’s parents, meanwhile, have embraced this new obsession of his. They look around Decatur and see a lot of lacrosse sticks and goals.
“When I first learned about the sport, I thought, ‘What kind of sport is this?’” Mamadou Sy said. “All of these parents, they’re Americans and intelligent people and they’re letting their kids play, so I’m sure it’s something really serious. After a while, we all began to like it.”
Lacrosse also gave Ousman Sy another sport to follow, along with basketball, his other favorite sport. He loves watching Atlanta native Scott Ratliff play for the local Major League Lacrosse team, the Atlanta Blaze, and has been to a few Georgia Swarm games since the National Lacrosse League franchise moved there from Minnesota. He’s an avid consumer of ESPNU and enjoys rooting on North Carolina, in particular.
Although he’s getting shier as he nears high school, Ousman Sy enjoys others’ company, whether it’s his neighborhood friend from Bangladesh or his Decatur lacrosse teammates.
“Lacrosse makes me really happy,” he said. “It makes me feel like I have a person or a coach to talk to that gives me a good relationship with certain people. It makes me feel free.”