The next year in the NCAA tournament, the Cardinals defeated second-ranked Tufts in the quarterfinals, avenged the prior season’s elimination loss to top-seeded RIT in the semifinals and beat third-ranked Salisbury in the championship game. Jacoby didn’t score, but he led the team with 66 goals.
“My freshman year, I was put into an offense with a lot of really good players,” he said. “No matter what the situation was, I was going to be the sixth option. I was the kid defenses didn’t pay attention to because they had to pay attention to the other five. I took advantage of that.”
Despite playing in only nine games as a junior and senior in 2020 and 2021 because of the COVID-19 pandemic, Jacoby still graduated ranked third in Wesleyan career goals (150) and ninth in Wesleyan career points (178).
Jacoby knew he wasn’t the fastest or strongest on the field, but what he did do was put in the work off the field.
“He was really serious about getting better, every day,” Raba said. “One of the hardest working players on the team, as an individual, he wanted to be great. He always did extra work on his shooting. People questioned his footspeed when he was young, and he just found ways to get his hands free. He was really deceptive with his stick.
“He’s also a guy that’s going to make you accountable as a leader. He’ll call people out. If you’re not working as hard as he is, he’s not shy to call you out on that.”
Despite not getting any looks to play Division I out of high school, Division I lacrosse became a reality because of his extra eligibility. Wesleyan didn’t have the master’s in finance program he wanted, but he wanted to keep playing lacrosse as well.
He joined Rutgers. He started all 19 games in 2022, finishing third on the team in goals (37) and points (48). He earned second-team All-Big Ten honors as well as USA Lacrosse Magazine All-American honorable mention.
Jacoby said he fit the team’s need for a lefty midfielder that could shoot. Coupled with the “NASCAR” offense the team ran, Jacoby felt like all the stars aligned, and he could be effective.
“I always try to, I know it’s cliché, but let the game come to you, don’t force it,” he said. “I have just been used to letting the game come to me. If I’m in the right places, opportunities are going to present themselves.”
Once again, Jacoby wasn’t ready for his lacrosse career to end. He thought his success at Rutgers would earn him a look in the PLL, but he was wrong. When he watched PLL games over the summer, he couldn’t help but feel like he was missing out.
Despite not signing with anybody or getting to go to training camp, Jacoby said it was key that he never had the mentality that he was hanging up the cleats. Still, he couldn’t see a path to the pros.
That was until he got a call from Utah Archers head coach Chris Bates asking him to play with the Archers in the 2024 Championship Series. Jacoby’s dad, Seth, played football at Dartmouth at the same time Bates was there, and the two were friendly. Jacoby isn’t 100 percent sure, but he also thinks Archers midfielder Ryan Aughavin floated his name to Bates; the two play for the same men’s league team, the Rad Dads.