Beginnings in Utah
Cole “Bubba” Matthew Fairman, born the youngest of three siblings, weighed in at 13 pounds at birth. That, and the fact that he didn’t lose his baby fat until late in elementary school, earned him the nickname that he now accepts. When he’s called his real name, he knows he’s in trouble.
“I was super fat as a kid,” he said. “I had the cheeks that rolled over the chin and I looked like the Michelin baby. I was just this chunky kid, so Bubba just stuck.”
As he grew up, Bubba and his brothers played traditional sports like football and baseball. But he didn’t excel and was tired of having to “swat butterflies” in the outfield.
Luckily for Bubba and his brothers, their father always had his eye on lacrosse. A former University of Utah football player, he had some experience with lacrosse through his time in Framingham, Mass.
Jay Fairman offered his kids a deal — quit baseball for a season to play lacrosse. If you don’t like it, you can go back to baseball. And so the Fairman boys set out to play a game scarce in popularity in Utah.
There was one hurdle, a relatively big one, to jump. Brighton offered one team for Elias’ age group, half a team for Luke, but there weren’t enough players to organize a team for Bubba.
“‘Forget that, I’ll start a team,’” Jay Fairman said.
He called the local football leagues to recruit the top athletes from each team. Within a year, Brighton went from having two full teams to 12 youth teams. Bubba’s age group, third grade to fourth grade, had more than 20 kids represented.
From that point on, the Fairman brothers were lifers in the sport of lacrosse. Their father decided to build them a field on their one-acre lot, tilling up the lawn, clearing out the rocks and leveling ground to make sure his kids could play day-in and day-out.
It worked. Bubba and his brothers were outside every day, playing lacrosse. It helped that the Fairman household did not have cable.
Bubba's brothers strapped pillows to his body, put a helmet on him and stuck him in the cage to receive the brunt of rifled tennis balls. Such is the life of a younger sibling. Elias Fairman (Westminster) and Luke Fairman (Onondaga) both played collegiately and now coach at Park City High School, winning the boys’ and girls’ state championships this past weekend.
“We really used lacrosse as a way to get closer,” the youngest Fairman said. “We didn’t realize it at the moment, but looking back now, we see it. Spending so much time together practicing one thing and always pushing each other was what made me really fall in love with the sport.”
Jay Fairman's love for the Maryland lacrosse teams of the 1970s transferred to his children. Bubba idolized Terps greats like Grant Catalino, Ryan Young and Jesse Bernhardt.
He continued improving and became one of Brighton’s best players as soon as he stepped onto the field as a freshman. He led his team to two Utah state championships and began getting interest from Division I schools like Bellarmine.
However, both Fairman and his father sought to push his game to the next level. Thus, he decided on traveling to the East Coast for his junior year boarding at The Calverton School (Md.).
“‘This is your opportunity. How good are you? This is your chance.’” Jay Fairman said. “‘You’re going to the East Coast and playing against the best players, let’s see how well you do.’ He didn’t hesitate.”
Fairman flourished at The Calverton School and committed to Navy during his junior year. However, after going back to Utah the next summer, he had a change of heart. He said he wasn’t sure if he wanted the “military regimented” life of the Naval Academy, and decided to re-open his recruitment.
He played out his senior season at Brighton and received interest from Maryland — the school for which he and his father grew up cheering. Before he joined the Terps, he spent a year post-grad playing for Deerfield (Mass.), a suggestion due to the late nature of his recruiting.
But it was a no-brainer. Fairman, the Under Armour All-American who went viral with this “RKO” celebration, was headed to College Park, home of the newly crowned national champions.