When asked why he was retiring now, Desko replied that he almost still didn’t know the total answer. “Open” conversations with his family and Wildhack helped him reach the decision and conclusion that he described as “easier than I thought.”
“I’m even appreciating it every day the more time that I’ve had to think about it and just to be able to be with the family at home,” Desko said.
Though Desko’s last season was perhaps his most difficult due to the controversy surrounding Chase Scanlan and the team’s underperformance (7-6) that ended with an 18-8 loss to Georgetown in the first round of the NCAA tournament, the theme this afternoon was one of celebration and reflection on Desko’s storied career.
After answering questions about his impact on the program, during which Desko deferred the attention, the topic of conversation turned to his successor and former player Gary Gait, who led the Syracuse women’s lacrosse team since August 2007. Desko recalled watching Gary and Paul Gait — “these two big twins” — dominating at a Canadian lacrosse festival. After Syracuse fell short in the national championship game Gait’s freshman year, Gary Gait approached Roy Simmons Jr. and Desko, then an assistant coach.
“Jeez, now that I know what this is all about, I’ll make sure we don’t lose another one,” Gait told them.
The Orange didn’t.
“I felt like we were cheating when they were playing,” Desko said of the Gaits. While he previously prescribed to several gameday superstitions, those faded by the Gaits’ sophomore year because he was so confident the Orange would win.
Desko said he had not given thought to coaching anywhere else and that he believed the transition would be “seamless.” He noted he would support Syracuse in any way he could moving forward and already had several conversations with Gait.
“He stressed that he’d like me around the team,” Desko said. “Obviously not in a coaching way, but he thinks it would be healthy for me to stay in contact with the guys. And I’d be happy to come to practice and point out what everybody’s doing wrong.”
Below are just a few of the tributes from Desko’s former players.