WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE when you grow up? A self-described “mama’s boy,” the third-grade boy surprised even his own family with his response to the journal prompt.
McArdle’s mother was a real estate appraiser. But he wanted to follow in his father’s footsteps. He wanted to be a gym teacher.
Jack McArdle taught health and physical education for 30 years at St. Mary’s High School in Manhasset, New York. He retired as the school’s athletic director in 2015.
“Why did I choose this profession? My dad, for one,” McArdle said. “And two, I love sports. I couldn’t see myself doing anything else.”
Not that he ever envisioned doing it here in Washington Heights, a predominantly Dominican neighborhood in upper Manhattan. After graduating from St. John’s, he moved to Long Beach in Nassau County and lived there for four years while earning his master’s degree and a physical education certificate at Hofstra.
When Goldrich, a litigation and criminal defense attorney, got the opportunity to work at a leading law firm in the city, McArdle followed her there. They moved into an apartment together and he landed a job as a K-5 teacher at P.S. 48, a school with 97-percent minority enrollment that serves mostly low-income families.
It’s hard to reconcile these two parts of McArdle. As an athlete, he’s notorious for his temper. In his first National Lacrosse League game with Toronto in 2017, he launched himself into Saskatchewan goalie Aaron Bold — a no-no in box lacrosse. He wound up fighting three guys and earning the nickname “The Enforcer.”
But Monday through Friday, he’s Mr. McArdle. Sometimes he’s a shark, as in Sharks and Minnows. Other times, he’s a bear, growling while demonstrating bear crawls along the gym floor beside Broadway and 186th Street.
“These kids don’t come from much of anything,” McArdle said. “At the end of the day, if I’m making these kids smile, they’re having fun and they’re active, that’s a big win.”
Teaching lacrosse reminds McArdle of how he felt the first time he grasped a stick, even if new students occasionally mistake theirs for a tennis racket or call the pocket a pouch. They got to watch him play during his two seasons with the NLL’s New York Riptide and when the PLL came to Red Bull Arena in New Jersey in 2019.
McArdle thrived as a weekend warrior, but a championship eluded him. It kept him up at night. Brooks too.
“One thing he’s always said to me is he’s never won anything,” Brooks said.
THe Waterdogs were 0-2 and MccArdle was a non-factor. Relegated to a utility role, he managed just two measly goals. He had just turned 30. Was this it?
“I was questioning my game a little bit,” McArdle said. “And then Mikey Sowers gets hurt.”
With Michael Sowers out for Week 3 on Long Island, McArdle moved back to attack and carved up the Chrome for three goals and four assists, convincing coach Andy Copelan to keep him in the lineup when Sowers returned. The Waterdogs rode their resurgent star to five straight wins and a playoff spot. McArdle finished second in the PLL in scoring with 19 goals a league-best 23 assists.
But even in the hazy afterglow of their championship victory over the Chaos at Subaru Park in Chester, Pennsylvania — sifting through the cigar smoke and celebratory spritz of Michelob Ultra — it was easy to lose sight of McArdle. He was the last to the podium in the post-game press conference and observed with satisfying silence as others fielded questions.
He thought of his mom.
“After one of the [worst] years of my life, it turns out, this is by far the best year of my life,” McArdle would say months later. “It’s crazy how life works. You never know what’s coming next.”