So that brings me to today.
I woke up this morning, at my home in California, wondering why my hallway was so quiet and why no one had texted me yet about the daily visit to the Heart and Soul Café. It took me a minute to realize, though I was happily home with a snoring bulldog at my feet, that I was alone and missed opening my door and seeing one of my teammates across the hall.
On our final night in Poland, our assistant coach Amy Bokker summed it up perfectly. She said her favorite thing about lacrosse is the relationships. She likes winning gold medals too, but the relationships are why she loves lacrosse.
On one of the last days of the trip, during a very unremarkable moment, I remember pausing for a moment, realizing that this journey with this group was about to come to an end. I wanted to tell everyone to stop running for a second and to sit still so that time would move slower. Unfortunately, time doesn’t work like that.
Talent-wise, this was the best team I have ever played with. I feel lucky to have my name next to my teammates’ on a roster. Personality-wise, these teammates became my family.
At the beginning of this whole journey, we were all very cognizant of the fact that our personalities gave us our foundation as a team. So, it was only natural that our objective was to be our best selves on and off the field throughout the trip. We achieved this objective. And while I love winning gold medals too, I love these people and I love these friendships. This team made me a better person.
I may not remember the final score of every game. I may not remember every good play or even every bad play for that matter.
Moving forward, though I won’t see my teammates every day, I will try to see pieces of them – whether it’s Becca’s positive perspective, Alice’s elbows, Michelle’s singing voice, Brookie’s diet, MJ’s overall awesomeness, Bullard’s goodness, Katie’s humbleness, Rie Rie’s food appreciation, Jen’s laugh, Alex’s dance moves, Kelly’s fashion tips, Ally’s laid backness, Gussie’s knowledge, Taylor’s loyalty, Zimmy’s intelligence, Kayla’s humor, Cookie’s toughness, or Alyssa’s stories, I will never forget the past 26 days and will never forget these 18 people.
To Ricky and the rest of the staff: Thank you for bringing this group together. Thank you for embracing who we were as individuals, and allowing us to find our way as a collective. You’ve created something very special. BUSA.
– Devon Wills
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