Both Giles and Szabo couldn’t resist the pull of the stripes once they were recruited into the brotherhood of officials.
Ever since a knee injury slowed his playing career, Giles was drawn to the game in another way. It was former Virginia coach Dom Starsia who presented officiating as a “positive, benevolent” alternative. And as a former attackman, Giles loved being in the mix. Being an official came him that same feel.
“This gives me a whole different perspective and a view of the game that I understood, but you don’t really understand until you put on the stripes and grab the whistle and flag,” he said.
The biggest adjustment for Giles was being on the field without his stick. He does still carry it everywhere and leaves it on the sideline while he works.
But officiating became a new way to give back to the game with deep Native roots. And it also presented a new challenge.
“Thankfully, your brain as a referee is so immersed in the game, it’s almost like you’re playing,” he said. “At least that’s been my experience.
“Refereeing, you talk about being a student of the game. You have to study a rule book. And then you get quiz. Lacrosse is a classroom without walls, but refereeing, you have to go to a classroom and get certified every year.”
Szabo grew up with a wooden stick gifted to him by his grandfather. He still has it. It felt different to be on the field without that stick — or any stick — in his hands. He doesn’t think so much about it now as he nears two full decades as an official.
“Lacrosse is played for our Creator and for his enjoyment,” Szabo said. “You play lacrosse for those who can’t. It’s a source of honor and a way to honor them. Me still being allowed to be part of the game, even not as a player, is impactful for me.”
That’s the sales pitch he brings when trying to recruit new officials to the ranks. Even after your playing days are over, putting on the stripes let you feel the thrill of lacrosse from a different perspective — and get paid for it.
“I’ve always been under the mantra that I think ex-players make some of the best referees,” Szabo said. “They may not even ever consider being an official, but sometimes you can find that gem who wants to not only make some extra money but has a love for the sport and possesses the right skill set — level-headed, being familiar with how the game should be played.”
It keeps you close to the game and could lead to highlight moments, like officiating international competition and being part of likely the first all-Native crew.
“I have two long braids and I wear my USA flag and my Haudenosaunee flag [on my referee uniform],” Giles said. “That’s me representing but having some PR and sharing the roots and the culture.”