INDIANAPOLIS — Tony Resch stood in the cage, his eyes fixed on the action before him.
A National Lacrosse Hall of Fame coach and a former All-American and gold medal-winning defenseman, Resch added adaptive goalie to a lifetime of lacrosse experiences as he fielded shots at an Able Athletics clinic Oct.12 in Indianapolis.
“I gave up a lot of goals,” Resch said as he laughed. “I loved it. I’ll put it on my resume.”
An assistant coach for the U.S. Men’s Sixes team, Resch made the trip to Indianapolis on Oct. 8 with his eyes set on preparing the host nation for international competition. But the USA Lacrosse Experience was as much about community engagement as it was teambuilding.
Resch and members of the U.S. Sixes team like Ryan Conrad and TJ Malone took part in the adaptive clinic, supporting young athletes with disabilities as they worked their way through drills designed to simulate shooting, dodging, passing and catching.
At the end of the clinic, the participants had the ultimate honor of scoring a goal on Conrad, Malone and Resch — a defeat that the clinicians would gladly accept.
“The energy and enthusiasm of both the kids playing and the clinician was just off the charts,” Resch said. “We didn't have to do anything but have fun with the kids because they had done such a tremendous job organizing the clinic and telling us about the program.”
Resch had nothing but praise for Able Athletics, which hosted the clinic in partnership with the wheelchair lacrosse team, the Indy Rip. Able Athletics provides opportunities for children with rare disorders or developmental differences specifically in Westchester County (N.Y.) and Connecticut. It was founded in 2020 thanks to the vision of brothers Rowan and Christian Dias, who wanted their sister, Elle, who has special needs, to have an opportunity to compete just as they did growing up.
“Our expectations for the clinic were rooted in the vision of providing a truly transformative experience — one that not only paralleled mainstream lacrosse but also created a sense of belonging for athletes and families,” said Vanessa Dias, co-founder and executive director of Able Athletics. “The depth of connection, the shared passion for the game and the genuine inclusivity exceeded even our highest expectations.”
As soon as Resch had heard about the clinic, he was motivated to take part in any way he could. Resch and his wife, Mary, have spent the last 30 years caring for their son, Brendan, who has autism. In that time, the Resch family, including Brendan’s brothers Pat and Conor, has had plenty of experience working with children who have developmental differences.
When Resch grabbed a stick and headed onto the field at Carroll Stadium, he thought of Brendan. He pictured the trips to the Special Olympics when Brendan was a child and the countless adventures to Dartmouth and Yale to see his brothers play college lacrosse.
“He would be freezing his buns off up there,” Resch said. “He just loved to watch them play.”
Resch also remembered the avenues that his son opened for him and his wife, Mary, who were introduced to so many classmates, teachers and counselors who helped their son along the way.
“He's been a blessing in our lives,” Resch said. “It has connected us to a lot of amazing people, teachers and classroom aides who really want to help. It takes you on maybe a journey you might not have anticipated, but we're proud of him and we love him.”