What lessons did you take from your legal fight to get your team back on the field?
Getting the teams reinstated, usually everyone cheers and that’s where the story ends. But that first year, we went zero and everything (0-8 in 1993). Everyone can be positive when things are going great. Who are you when things are really hard? Do you show up every day and put a smile on your face and still give that 100-percent effort? I was the proud captain of both of those teams (1993 and 1994) that, as far as the scoreboard went, were not winning teams. But we had character, we had grit and we had strong work ethic.
Have you connected with the team since you graduated?
I’ve spoken with them, not just about my lacrosse experience, but they also know I’m a lawyer. They’ve called me, and I spoke to the team about some hard things. After the George Floyd murder, they had a lot of questions, and we were able to have a confidential private conversation where I said, “Look, we are sisters. I know we might not look like each other, but I feel like I wore that same uniform, and even though we haven’t met yet, we share something together because I was in your shoes many years ago. Ask me any questions.” We are only going to move forward in this country if we can start having honest and truthful conversations with each other.
What does it feel like to try a high-profile case in front of a packed courtroom?
The feeling you get right before a game starts where you have butterflies, I was really worried that I was never going to feel that way after I graduated college. And then I became a lawyer, and I started trying cases, and I felt that same sort of competitive spirit and work ethic percolate again when I was in the courtroom.
Who are some of your inspirations in women’s sports?
I will sit and watch TV with tears rolling down my eyes when I see how exceptional women’s soccer is — Megan Rapinoe and the fight that they’ve had to get equal pay. Simone Biles, Serena Williams, Abby Wambach — they’re just players out there that are changing the game. Period. Title IX in my day and age was about equity in sports and making sure that women’s athletics had the same funding as men’s athletics, or the same opportunities. We still have work to do, but I’m very, very proud of where we are.