In addition to his international work, Hayes was also a member of the USA Lacrosse Foundation board of directors from 1985-1987, and he was president of the U.S. Lacrosse Coaches Association from 1990-1994. He was USILA Rules Committee Chairman from 1975-1979 and USILA International Games Committee Chairman from 1973-1994. Hayes served as general manager of the U.S. national team for the world championships in 1974, 1978, 1982, 1986, and 1990.
In 2012, Hayes was selected as USA Lacrosse Magazine’s Person of the Year, largely due to his tireless efforts to champion the international growth of lacrosse. That year, he spearheaded World Lacrosse’s application and eventual admission into SportAccord, a key milestone in gaining IOC recognition.
“If you want to start lacrosse in a new country, you pick up sticks, find athletes and watch the joy of our sport take over. But if you wanted to organize lacrosse in that country in a meaningful way, you called Tom Hayes. He was the galvanizing force for the global lacrosse community for over four decades. Getting us a seat with SportAccord was huge. He did it,” said Matt DaSilva, editor-in-chief of USA Lacrosse Magazine at the time.
Among his many lifetime honors, Hayes was the USILA’s Man of the Year in 1974 and 1987; the USILA’s Frenchy Julien Service Award recipient in 2000; the New Jersey Lacrosse Man of the Year winner in 2000; and World Lacrosse’s Lifetime Achievement Award selectee in 2002.
Originally from Floral Park, N.Y., Hayes was an outstanding midfielder who led Sewanhaka High School to consecutive championships in 1956, 1957, and 1958. He went on to Penn State University where he earned All-America honors twice and led the Nittany Lions to the conference championship in 1962 before beginning his coaching career.
Prior to Rutgers, Hayes coached two seasons at his alma mater, Penn State, and five years at Drexel University, serving as head coach from 1969-1974. Hayes’ overall coaching record was 243-162 over 32 seasons, including 194 victories at Rutgers.
In addition to his induction into the National Lacrosse Hall of Fame, he is a member of the Long Island Lacrosse Hall of Fame (1989), the Sewanhaka High School Hall of Fame (1996), the New Jersey Lacrosse Hall of Fame (1997), the Rutgers Athletics Hall of Fame (2017) and the Intercollegiate Men’s Lacrosse Coaches Association Hall of Fame (2017).