Redshirt freshman midfielder Mike D’Alessandro, who wasn’t even playing, delivered the most powerful statements during the 90-minute, cathartic in-person group chat that followed. D’Alessandro, who had planned to play football at North Carolina too, has undergone four knee surgeries in the last three years, on his left and right ACLs and a meniscus.
“Watching you guys play soft is terrible,” D’Alessandro said, tears streaming down his face. “I’d die to be on that field. I don’t know if I’ll ever play again. I don’t see anybody diving to check people, diving for ground balls, bodying people up. It’s making me sick, you guys taking it for granted.”
Pifani poured his heart out about what the Carolina jersey meant. Offensive coordinator David Metzbower silently steamed, battling the flu. “We didn’t have any prima donnas anymore after that,” he said.
That meeting set the tone for the Tar Heels’ turnaround, but still much on-field work remained for a team that was probably more talented than most realized, with 20 former high school All-Americans and preseason top-10 status.
Metzbower, who previously won six NCAA titles as an assistant at Princeton, continued to bring along converted midfielders Cloutier, who couldn’t beat a short stick, and Steve Pontrello on attack — they were the Bitter and Sankey replacements, even though Kelly admitted feeling angry after filling Bitter’s lefty role all fall, only to be told he’d play midfield in the spring. His quickness was more valuable there. Former scout teamer Brian Cannon later joined the second midfield at Breschi’s request. He scored three goals in the final four.
Assistant coach Brian Holman worked with Balkam, the hopeful permanent goalie replacement for Kieran Burke, who elected to leave the team in the offseason. Balkam was pulled from what became a key 17-16 win over Duke on April 1, and almost yanked from others.
Pifani, the team’s top cover defenseman, and Matthai, the leaders of the defense, clashed at times in recent seasons. The pair of opinionated personalities, one direct and loud and the other usually using a soft touch, now were on the same page. Good thing, because starting defenseman Zach Powers broke his arm against the Blue Devils and didn’t return until the postseason.
Even after the watershed post-UMass meeting, when intensity in practice and games picked up and playing time was laid out for all, the Tar Heels didn’t exactly set the lacrosse world on fire. They went 5-3 in the next eight games. And although that included a magical comeback from down five goals in the fourth quarter to beat then-No. 1 Notre Dame to give the Tar Heels’ NCAA tournament hope, the co-ACC regular-season champs also ended April with a 10-7 loss to Syracuse in the ACC semis. Afterward, faceoff man Stephen Kelly barked a reminder of what was at stake: “We need to make history!”
When North Carolina learned it made the tournament field May 1, the Tar Heels went dry. No drinking during playoffs, the captains decreed.
“I came here not to party, not to do drugs, none of that stuff,” said freshman midfielder Timmy Kelly, Patrick’s brother. “We came here to win championships. If you didn’t have it in mind, see you later.”