In addition to his lacrosse achievements, Flatley is generally regarded as one of Long Island’s finest high school football coaches of all time. He recorded 264 wins as Garden City’s varsity football coach over a span of 25 years, winning 18 Nassau County championships. His .879 winning percentage was the highest in New York among football coaches with 200 wins or more.
“Tom was unique in that he experienced great success coaching two sports with players ranging from high school to the international level,” Lichtfuss said. “He was able to effectively communicate and lead young men across each of these platforms. His mere presence commanded respect from his teams. His ability to coach, manage and win at each of these levels while maintaining a consistent, straightforward approach, is what defines Tom’s legacy.”
Flatley’s career also includes service as general manager with the professional New York Saints indoor lacrosse team and as a coach on the club level. He served on the USCLA’s rules advisory committee for many years and was president of the Long Island Summer Lacrosse Association from 1970-1985.
In recognition of his contributions to lacrosse, Flatley was awarded the US Lacrosse Lifetime Achievement Award in 2019. He has also been inducted into five Halls of Fame: the Long Island-Metro Lacrosse Hall of Fame, Sewanhaka High School Hall of Fame, Garden City High School Hall of Fame, New York State Public High Schools Athletic Association Hall of Fame and the Nassau County High School Athletic Hall of Fame.
“What you saw is what you got from Tom,” Lichtfuss said. “On the surface he was stoic, measured and no nonsense. But having both competed against Tom’s teams and experienced first-hand his contributions to the national teams, I appreciated his sense of humor. He always had his teams’ backs and respect.”
His daughter, Christine Bellocco, told Newsday, “Dad was like an onion, and as you peeled away the layers and got to his heart, you found an amazing man. He was never comfortable talking about himself, a truly selfless individual who liked to spread the accolades to his coaches and players.”
Flatley is survived by three adult children and nine grandchildren. A private funeral and burial are scheduled for Friday.