During an initial tour of Albany’s campus in August 2019, Elijah Gash kept asking himself, “Is this real?” By the time he talked to Marr in person, he knew it was the spot for him.
The dream would have to wait, at least for another year.
“We knew it could take some time,” Marr said.
In order to academically qualify, Gash took 36 credits last year, including 24 in the spring at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay, to complete his associates degree.
He worked as a barback and delivery driver and realized he didn’t want to do that the rest of his life. He started training with a purpose two times a day, first in Bay Port’s gym, then in the “COVID gym” the Gashes constructed in their basement alongside his younger brother, Isaiah, who’s a preferred walk-on running back at the University of Michigan. Marr and Albany’s academic advisor frequently checked in with him.
“I knew there was something great on the other side,” Elijah Gash said.
“We knew he had it in him,” Alicia Gash said. “We knew he had something special.”
Marr expressed a similar feeling when Gash started practicing at Albany in the fall. Although the Great Danes had limited time together because of COVID protocols, Gash did not need a large sample size to impress.
“It didn't take very long if at all,” Marr said after praising Gash’s work ethic. “He fit in pretty much right away.”
“He’s one of the hardest working kids on the team,” Tehoka Nanticoke told US Lacrosse Magazine in a written message. “He’ll come up to me and ask questions during practice or after on what he can do to get better, and I respect the hell out of him for doing that. It shows me he wants to be here.”
Gash called guarding Nanticoke for the first time a “pinch-me” moment. Before his first practice, Gash could barely speak. He was too nervous. But once he got on the field and started running around, he felt at home. He praised the entire team, but particularly returning starting defensemen Steven Kunz and Michael Kozar, for easing the transition.
The program that built its identity on a free-wheeling offense now has an intimidating defense to match. Marr calls it the most athletic unit he’s ever coached.
After the Colgate game, Marr texted Kessenich, to whom he had provided updates about Gash’s progress along the way.
“It was beyond a good report card,” Kessenich said. “Let’s just leave it at that.”