Brown now had a shot at its first outright Ivy title with a road game at Penn the most significant obstacle. In the meantime, Steph was following through with his career plans and was offered two possible dates for a mandatory Peace Corps orientation. His options were the week before the game with Penn or the weekend that would include the game at Dartmouth.
At the same time, it was a realistic goal that he finish the season as Brown’s all-time leading scorer. His teammates assumed he would simply make that decision until he came to the team with the generous offer that “I will do whatever you think is best.”
The team ultimately decided that it could beat Dartmouth without him and that we truly needed him to be properly prepared for the game at Penn. We went on to beat the Quakers in a close game 9-7, won at Dartmouth 15-6 and finished the season as undefeated Ivy League Champions.
In turn, Steph finished the season No.2 on Brown’s all-time list, only two points behind 1970 grad “Bullet” Bob Anthony. He spent his two Peace Corps years working with underserved children in Bogota, Colombia and returned to New York City to begin a career at the Goddard Riverside Community Center. He spent 39 years at Goddard, including the last 19 as its executive director. He retired just this past Feb. 10.
My favorite sports book is Dean Smith’s autobiography “A Coach’s Life.” In the introduction he states that “there is great value in examining the athletic heart at the championship level.” I have considered his insightful words often over the course of a long career. In this instance, the guy who least wanted to be thought of as a jock, provided one of the most profound examples of an athlete’s heart at the championship level….of life.
Dom Starsia, a National Lacrosse Hall of Famer and US Lacrosse Magazine contributor, is the winningest coach in NCAA Division I men's lacrosse history. Starsia compiled 375 wins in 34 seasons at Brown and Virginia, leading the Cavaliers to four NCAA championships. He was a two-time All-American defenseman at Brown and played for the U.S. national team in 1978.