Pietramala communicated with the current team, too, tapping out an email that he described as “very transparent and very honest.”
“I’ve been sitting here in front of my computer for the last 30 minutes trying to find the words and most in particularly the right words to make the first impression, because you don’t get a second chance to make a first impression,” he said. “I thought that was really important. I told them that I was anxious and excited to earn their trust and respect. And what you learn about me pretty quickly is I wear my emotions on my sleeve. I am who I am, and I am very much relationship-driven. And I told them all that I was very excited to have the chance to get to know them not just on an athletic level, but a personal level, and get to know what inspires them and what excites them and know what their fears are.
“They’ve been great. They were very responsive. I received a number of really thoughtful emails back. I just texted back and forth with Brendan Curry and Jack Witherspoon in the last probably 10 minutes. They’re slowly trickling in. I’m well aware that email is not the preferred method of communication these days by teenagers.”
Pietramala’s twin sons, Dominic and Nicholas, are top recruits and rising seniors at the Boys’ Latin School of Maryland. Dave Pietramala helped coached the Boys’ Latin defense at practices this spring and gave a couple pregame speeches to the Lakers on their run to the program’s first MIAA championship since 2014. Both Dominic, a lefty attackman and the No. 2 recruit in the class of 2022 according to Inside Lacrosse, and Nicholas, a rangy defenseman, verbally committed to North Carolina last fall.
“I've been asked that question a lot,” Dave Pietramala said regarding if his new job would have any bearing on his sons’ future plans. “I’ve learned very quickly that there is no right answer. If I say one thing, people read into it one way. If I say another thing, they read into it another way. So what I would say is — I would respectfully say — they’re fortunate to love lacrosse and be a part of a sport that they love. They’re fortunate to be able to be recruited at a high level. I would leave it at that. They’re 17-year-old kids right now that are enjoying their summer. The last thing that dad needs to do is put any additional pressure on them.”
Pietramala said one of Gait’s greatest qualities was his poise and composure in pressure situations. No longer tasked with guarding or game planning against his fellow all-time great, his focus right now is to build a foundation at his former rival.
“My first priority with these guys isn’t scheme,” Pietramala said. “It’s building a sense of trust and a mutual sense of respect. My goal isn’t to tell them what they want to hear. It’s going to be honest with them and tell them what they need to hear. … I’ve been very clear about who and what I am, and I’m thrilled to hear that they feel like they have something to prove. I think I sit in that same boat as them. I feel like I have something to prove as well.”