On the days of BC home games, the Eagles are excused from classes. Smith goes anyway. Going to class helps center her, she said, but it also points to her work ethic and a commitment to constantly push herself.
Between upward of six hours of lacrosse every day, plus a rigorous academic course load, Smith rarely slows down.
“I kind of like having not much time to get things done. I think it forces me to stay focused, which I am appreciative of,” Smith said. “But no, it’s really hard.”
Her daily breather comes at dinner, when she cooks for herself and often her roommates after they catch a whiff of what she’s making. But outside of that brief respite, Smith is laser focused.
Her family is at the root of that trait, too. Her father, Tom, encouraged Smith and her siblings to pursue lacrosse and even coached some of her youth teams.
Still, Smith doesn’t feel any pressure from her family. Any that she does feel comes from an internal desire to succeed.
“I think our team does [feel pressure],” Smith said. “All of us individually and as a unit, but I think that's what makes us better. I think if we didn't have the pressure on ourselves, then you know, what are you playing for?”
Though Smith’s mom and aunt were both Division I athletes in college — they played together at Delaware — they made a conscious decision to let Smith and Schleicher develop their own identities as college athletes.
“I think they kind of wanted us to form our own path,” Smith said. “We knew that they were badass when they were playing at Delaware. But I think something really special about them is they always let us forge our own path and kind of figure it out on our own.”
That doesn’t mean that Smith’s family is completely hands-off in her lacrosse career. Smith had her choice of colleges before landing at BC, and a big factor in the process was how easy it would be for her family to come to her games. Boston is just a ferry ride away from their home on Long Island, and Jen and Tom Smith make the trip up for every home game.
They’re present not to be sideline coaches or to impart wisdom on their daughter (Jen Smith was a longtime motivational speaker), but to share in the joy that Smith feels every time she steps on the field.
“As opposed to me talking about X's and O's or giving her a motivational speech — she doesn't want that,” Jen Smith said. “She just wants to know that I love her equally on the good days and equally on the bad days.”
Smith will spend her summer away from the small, quaint beach town that she grew up in for the first time this year. She’ll be interning in a big city, living with one of her teammates, and figuring out who she wants to be outside of lacrosse.
But when she makes trips home, it’ll be easy to spot her pacing up and down the shores of Westhampton Beach with her family, scouting out the competition.
Just like she always does.