STEVE COLFER IS AWARE of the misconception that he left Cabrini because of its sale to Villanova. That’s how it appeared, anyway. It was announced June 29 that he was stepping down after 26 years with the program, including 23 as its head coach.
Although that was publicly revealed six days after the bombshell report, Colfer said he let people within Cabrini know he was taking a position as the assistant athletics director and head boys’ lacrosse coach at Episcopal Academy (Pa.) a few days earlier.
“I had no idea that Cabrini was as close to being acquired as they were,” said Colfer, who boasts 329 career wins and led the Cavaliers to the NCAA Division III championship in 2019. “This was a personal career decision for me to pop my head up after 26 years and see what was out there in terms of a different opportunity.”
The breaking news didn’t make for a clean break from the place Colfer had called home for nearly three decades. He was inundated with calls from players, parents and other coaches — both for clarity of the present situation and for inquiries into future prospects.
Colfer called it an “around-the-clock” process. He and new head coach Tommy DeLuca, a member of the national championship team and a graduate assistant with the program prior to his promotion, first focused on re-homing the incoming freshman class. Getting them a true four-year experience was paramount.
Then they worked through individual cases as they came up. Tough, honest conversations were had.
“The guys who left, they left for the right reasons — their education, finances, whatever it was,” Colfer said. “The guys who stayed also stayed for the right reasons.”
What’s left is a group of players fundamentally bought in with no freshmen to get up to speed on culture or drills. Housed in one of the largest locker rooms in the Dixon Center, the team reassembled its locker formation in late September to pack it in and fill in the gaps of those who left.
It’s a move DeLuca hopes will continue to strengthen bonds as the Cavaliers embark on a season they know will be an uphill battle. “Together” is the word players and coaches use at every opportunity. It’s not an empty rallying cry. It’s a necessity.
Cabrini currently rosters two goalies and one faceoff specialist. Depth isn’t plentiful. While DeLuca’s hopeful this isn’t the case, the December recess could lead to more departures as other coaches attempt to bolster their spring rosters.
The deck is very much stacked against the Cavaliers.
“I don't know if this is the right or wrong way to look at it, but for me, it's not really pressure,” DeLuca said. “Because we have expectations that we set for ourselves of how successful we want to be, but we also fully understand that everyone else's expectations for us this year are just about nothing. So, if you go out and have an awful year, then nobody's surprised. But if we go out and have a pretty good year and start to surprise some people, that's huge.”
DeLuca now sits in the same office behind the same desk Colfer once inhabited. It’s strange for him to be on that side. At the same time, Cabrini has always felt like home to the 25-year-old from Apex, North Carolina, who was the 2019 IMCLA Division III Defensive Player of the Year and the 2021 USILA William C. Stiles Most Outstanding Defenseman.
“All I wanted to do was win,” DeLuca said. “There’s not a ton of places that win more than Cabrini does.”