From an early age, O’Neill wanted to learn for himself.
“Even when I was teaching him to ride a bike,” says his father, Ed. “But he was like, ‘Hey, I want to do it by myself.’ He would go in the backyard and taught himself how to ride a bike. He’s always been that way.”
O’Neill’s self-motivation bled into sports at an early age. He started swimming when he was 6. He struggled, like all the children, in his first practice. But a week later, Ed and Diana saw him swimming laps.
He powered through swimming, hockey, basketball, baseball and football (his father’s former sport) before trying lacrosse. His parents knew nothing about the game, except that it was wildly popular in that region.
O’Neill joined the local Police Athletic League in second grade, learning the basic fundamentals of lacrosse like cradling and passing. But, again, he developed quickly.
“The first PAL game, they couldn’t really cradle,” Ed O’Neill says. “They did the spoon and no cradling. Probably the next game or the game after, somehow, some way, not by any doing of mine, something clicked. All of a sudden, I’m watching him and he’s actually playing lacrosse. The stick stuff came naturally to him.”
After games, O’Neill would come home to watch YouTube videos of Mark Matthews and John Grant Jr., then head out to the backyard to test their moves. He first tried a behind-the-back shot in a third-grade game when he was one-on-one with the goalie.
“I completely went out of my way,” he jokes. “I didn’t need to do it, but I did it anyway.”
Still, neither O’Neill nor his parents had any idea how special the kid could be. It took a meeting with coach Joe Spallina at a Pro Player Lacrosse Camp to give O’Neill that impression.
“We were searching for a left-handed attackman, and I had Brennan doing some stick skills,” Spallina says. “Right out of the gate, I call over my son, Joey, who was a 2022. I called Brennan over and I said, ‘Brennan, this is Joey. You two will spend the rest of the week hip-to-hip.’ From that point on, he’s been on my team.”
O’Neill joined Spallina’s club program, Team 91 Crush, where his game took off playing alongside some of the most talented prospects in the country. He could shoot 100 mph by middle school. His stick skills continued to develop.