FOUR CAMERAS FOLLOWED MILLON every time he touched the ball during the final session of Project Nine. That’s not including the GoPro he wore affixed to the top of his chrome orange McDonogh helmet. The accompanying five-minute video shot from Millon’s perspective and produced by lacrosse manufacturer East Coast Dyes has accrued more than 135,000 views and more than 120 comments on YouTube. They range from praise for Millon to pronouncements that Konrad Miklaszewski, who shadowed him most of the scrimmage, should be the No. 1 recruit. “The most overrated player in lacrosse history,” one says.
“Social media,” Rabil replied without hesitation when asked about the biggest difference between being a top recruit almost 20 years ago versus today. "But outside of that, nothing because most of the pressure for the best players in the world comes from inside."
Millon admitted that the phenomenon of playing in front of a phalanx of cameras — he started noticing them on the sidelines when he was in eighth grade — never completely becomes normal. “It comes with the territory,” Ament has told him. “Pressure is definitely a compliment. It's not necessarily a burden.”
Before games, Millon used to sit in the corner of the locker room with headphones on, shutting out everything and everyone else. More recently, he’s found he plays his best when he’s relaxed and loose. When he lets it all in. When he’s having fun. “Just go out and play your game,” his dad will tell him.
“If I’m beating you at your best, that’s something I can be really happy with,” McCabe Millon said.
That competitiveness was honed at home. Family tennis matches with his parents and his younger brother Brendan, a freshman at McDonogh, start out friendly enough. “Next thing you know, you're sliding all over the place like you’re Roger Federer and are trying to make slice shots,” he said.
Still, the games were rooted in fun. The Millons have always prioritized a healthy and active lifestyle. McCabe and Brendan played everything growing up from baseball to basketball to soccer to golf. During the cold snap this January, they tried out pond hockey.
Unlike many in the Maryland area, the famous lacrosse family initially held back from signing up McCabe for organized play. “We knew there was going to be a lot of lacrosse eventually in his life because it was such a big part of what Mark and I were doing individually,” said Erin Brown Millon, who founded a holistic coaching and mentoring program called The Balanced Athlete Project. “We didn’t feel the need to rush it.”
McCabe Millon’s passion for the game was apparent from the start. “I feel like if a parent played, someone might feel forced into playing or like they have to live up to something,” he said. “I really never had that and fell in love with lacrosse on my own.”
After Millon broke his left hand in his first tournament last summer, he’d watch hours of game film every day. He studied Virginia’s Connor Shellenberger on YouTube and VHS tapes of his dad’s MLL and world championships.
Seven days a week in the family’s basement gym across from shelves filled with awards from his parents’ playing careers, Millon performed single-leg squats and other lower-body exercises while wearing an adjustable weighted vest he could load up to 60 pounds. He thinks all the extra work improved his explosiveness and helped him see the game in a new light.
“People want to speculate that McCabe was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and he had this easy path with his mom and dad,” Mark Millon said. “He’s earned everything that he’s got.”