This story initially appeared on Behind the Whistle, the official blog of the IWLCA, and is being republished with permission from the organization. Alyssa Voccia is the assistant coach at Palm Beach Atlantic University.
Everyone has “their people/person” in their life. I like to consider myself extremely fortunate for who I have in mine.
One person in particular, Megan Smith, has made such a positive impact on my life. I first met Megan the summer before my freshman year at Limestone during camp. At the time, I was still fairly quiet, and Megan had made it her mission to get me to open up and be her friend. At every opportunity she had, she went out of her way to make sure that she ran up to me and said, “Hi, Alyssa!” I heard this a lot that week. It’s honestly something that she still brings up quite often. At the time, I might have been a little resistant, but now I couldn’t imagine my life without her. There is a lot of emphasis placed on the X’s and O’s of the game, but there is so much more to it than that.
Megan is a true example of a servant leader. She is somebody that is always looking for ways to help others, whether it’s her team, her community, the lacrosse community and the IWLCA, and of course the people around her. Her willingness to help others is something that I look up to and something that I hope to be able to mimic not only for my team, but also for the people around me.
While in college, it can be easy to get caught up in the day to day of lacrosse and life. One thing that Megan does really well is caring about you as someone who is more than a lacrosse player. She understands that while lacrosse is important, it only lasts for a relatively short period of your life (for most people), and she wants to be sure that you are setting yourself up for your future. As somebody who struggled throughout my time in college, having someone like her in my life made such a huge difference and is one of the reasons that I wanted to start coaching. She is somebody who you can go to at any time and will make time to listen. Now, I pretty much talk to her every day. Good days, bad days, and everything in between, she’s always there — and I don’t know what I would do if she wasn’t. She’s really good at giving advice, even if it’s something that I don’t necessarily want to hear but need to hear.