This story initially appeared on Behind the Whistle, the official blog of the IWLCA, and is being republished with permission from the organization. Samantha Giacolone is a former Notre Dame goalkeeper and the current assistant coach for the Furman women’s lacrosse team.
Have you ever typed the word “captain” into the Merriam-Webster dictionary? If not, these are what the results look like:
Definition 1: a military leader.
Definition 2: one who leads or supervises.
Definition 3: a person of importance or influence in a field.
Now look up the word “leader” in the Merriam-Webster dictionary. What do those results look like? Here is what I found:
Definition 1: something that ranks first.
Definition 2: a person who directs a military force.
Definition 3: a person who has commanding authority or influence.
I have given you six definitions for two different words. My final question to you would be, what is the difference between a captain and a leader? From the simple definitions stated above, there seems to be little to no difference, but in the world of lacrosse that we all engage in every day, the title of captain is wanted so much more than the title of leader.
I’ll admit it. Being the captain of a team was always something I strived for. I did it in high school. I was the captain of three varsity sports teams starting as a sophomore leading all the way up to my senior year. Growing up with two parents who had excelled in the world of sports in their own unique ways instilled in me the values of family, trust, sacrifice and passion. I brought that to my teammates every day. Whether it was making sure someone knew I had their back, driving the younger players home so they would feel included, putting my teammates needs above my own or constantly pushing and encouraging my teammates to rise to their fullest potential, I did it. Not because I had the title of captain but because these were the values ingrained in me to be a great leader and a good person.
So as we all know, high school comes to an end at some point. You move on to the next big chapter in your life. College. It is a complete change of pace academically, socially and athletically. As a freshman, you are trying to just get your feet underneath you on a new, big stage. Sophomore year, you become the oldest of the youngest, so you have some of the scenes memorized but are still learning all the lines. Then you hit junior year. Junior year by far is the most challenging as an athlete, as a student and as a person. You may become part of the supporting cast or even move up into the under-study role and most likely get a shot at the main part in the big show called lacrosse. On top of all the athletic pressure, you are in your toughest classes, declaring majors and minors, planning out your post-college plans, interviewing and most importantly, figuring out how you truly want to make a mark before your college experience ends.