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Watson was initially attracted to Stanford’s combination of athletics and academics, but it was the people that sold her on the school and kept her there. The Cardinal’s roster is an impressive and eclectic collection of majors, backgrounds and resumes. Their players come from all around the country, studying everything from biology and computer science to engineering and economics.
Included in its ranks are a taekwondo black belt, a former competitive figure skater, the grandchild of an Olympic swimmer and one of the minds behind a student-run national nonprofit aimed at combating food waste. And those are just a few of the notable backgrounds.
“We’re all so different from one another, but it feels like we’re all pieces of the same puzzle,” Watson said. “That was one of the things that stood out to me during recruiting — the celebration of individuality.”
Stanford players and coaches encourage each other to share the things they’re interested in and passionate about, whether it’s a class or a hobby or just something that caught their eye. This offseason’s weekly Zoom sessions especially offered the team a space to learn about one another away from the field.
“I’m getting to learn so many interesting and cool things from my teammates, and hearing what they’re experiencing has really broadened my perspective,” Pelton said. “Obviously we all love lacrosse, but outside of the field, it’s awesome that Danielle has let us explore the realm of possibilities that Stanford can offer because there’s so much out there.”
Watson had always branched beyond sports. In high school, she started an Instagram account
(@clayfigures729) showcasing her miniature polymer clay food sculptures. She and her sister grew up watching and learning as their grandmother sculpted miniature dollhouse-size figures and food. One summer, with free time before a long afternoon of lacrosse, she started creating her own — tiny ice cream cones, cakes, pies, even a hometown Philly cheesesteak, all hand-sculpted, textured and painted, no bigger than a dime.
Watson’s account was featured in an Elle Magazine UK story on the trendy world of miniatures in 2016. Her art remained an important outlet as she made the jump from high school to college.
“It’s really nice to have another thing that gives you that kind of joy,” Watson said. “It’s a great way to stay present, and to generate positive and creative energy.”
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For the senior capstone project in Stanford’s product design major, Watson and her classmates were tasked with identifying a group of users with a problem and finding a solution. She partnered with Pelton and Cardinal softball player Kiana Pancino, and they chose a focus group close to home: female college athletes.
They conducted background research with female athletes from schools around the country, across a range of divisions and sports, and found a common thread. Many of the women they met struggled with feelings of emotional, social and sometimes physical isolation.
The trio came up with the idea for a multi-part story-sharing podcast, where female college athletes could share their experiences — and more importantly, others could hear them.
“We kept hearing a similar sentiment when they were reflecting on times of struggle. ‘If I had known that others were going through the same thing when I was struggling, it would’ve changed everything,’” Watson said. “And so that was kind of our driver.”
“Been There” debuted last May, with each episode centering on different female athletes and their personal stories. One episode focused on a rower’s journey back to sports after battling cancer. Another discussed what college is like for LGBTQ+ athletes.
In the series’ second episode, Watson and Yale junior defender Kenya Boston opened up about their experiences as Black female athletes in a predominantly white sport. They’d met years earlier at a Stanford lacrosse camp.
“Growing up in middle school, the first team I played on there were other people of color, but it wasn’t until I was older that I started to realize and see how few players there really were. A lot of them just kind of dropped off,” Watson said. “When you meet other players who are also Black athletes in lacrosse, you remember them. When [Boston] told her story, I was like, ‘Wow, we have very similar experiences.’ She inspired me to open up more about my own.”
Watson and Boston shared their stories of attending private schools where civil rights history was swept under the rug, and navigating feelings of alienation within the lacrosse community. The episode came out in June, amid the summer’s social justice protests and movements, and was part of an active dialogue that Watson said has continued now, both on Stanford team and through national outlets like the Blaxers Blog and #PartnerPassTheMic.
“The Blaxers Blog and [Virginia Tech goalie] Angie [Benson] have been at the forefront of a lot of it, just to start the conversation, and most importantly continue the conversation,” Watson said. “It’s really good to see, but you never know how long people are going to stay engaged. It’s been awesome to see everyone stay on board.”
As episodes of the podcast continued through the rest of the summer, its creators heard from younger players around the country — even from sports outside softball and lacrosse — that hearing these personal stories of women in college sports validated what they themselves were going through.
Kianah Watson was one of those young listeners. Her freshman lacrosse season as a defender at George Washington was cut short by the pandemic, and she found both consolation and inspiration in the podcast.
“The transition from high school to college lacrosse was difficult, but being able to have and hear those perspectives of other college lacrosse players, and some of them who I had just played against, I think that’s really cool,” she said. “That speaks a lot about who [Mikaela] is as a person.”