It’s not just kids Gurenlian has an impact on, however. He’s touched the lives of the men he shares a locker room with, as well.
“I took over as the head coach, and one of the first moves I made was talking to Greg and Drew Adams,” Spallina said. “New York was in flux, and they were very influential in persuading me to take the job and stay with the team.”
“He understands where it was when I took over and he stayed on to be one of the key guys,” Spallina added. “Guys were defecting and leaving. He was that steady influence then, letting everyone know it would be OK. It was trust from him to me and vice versa. He’s able to get that to resonate through the locker room through times of adversity.”
Ragonese remembered how he initially connected with Gurenlian, their first meeting and what it meant for his own future as a professional lacrosse player.
“We posted on Inside Lacrosse forums on faceoffs,” he said. “We were both using that forum to buy original Blades back in the day. That’s where faceoff guys were getting their heads when Warrior discontinued them. I reached out to him saying I’d be in New York for a few days and wanted to meet up for a workout. He was a personal trainer. I was an hour and a half late, and he was cool about it. He was giving me some ins and outs on the finer points of major league faceoff training.”
“I picked his brain about playing in the MLL at the time,” Ragonese continued. “He said it was a grind, especially for a faceoff guy, but if you have a good year, there’s a chance to try out. It put the idea in my head. It was like, ‘If he thinks I can do it, maybe I’ll give it a go.’”
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Gurenlian is retiring from MLL to spend more time with his wife, Jenny, and their newborn son, Jackson (pictured).
With the effect Gurenlian has on his teammates, it’s no surprise they all say they are in denial about the upcoming end to his career, particularly Adams, who has played with him since he was a teenager.
“We go about each game and practice the same way, but you put more consideration into time spent together,” he said. “You try to have a meal together before the game or after the game or sit next to him on the bus. You try to spend time with him before he’s done.”
Ragonese echoed those sentiments.
“[I want to give] a little thank you from me,” he said, “for being a friend, mentor, helping me out, assisting me when I needed help on or off the field.”
Gurenlian will retire with at least one MLL championship — the Lizards can still make the playoffs with a win over Charlotte and a Rochester loss to Ohio — and an MLL MVP award on his resume. He will retire as the league’s record holder for most faceoff wins in a season (280), best faceoff winning percentage in a season (73.1), career ground balls (993), career faceoffs won (2,004), and career faceoffs attempted (3,387).
More importantly, to him, he will retire a new father — his wife, Jenny, gave birth to Jackson earlier this year — as well as a fan and teammate favorite.
“I want them to know I cared,” Gurenlian said. “Yeah, I had the accolades, but that stuff goes away. I want them to say this is how you be a professional athlete. You train hard. Do things the right way. You don’t have to step on people on the way up. And now, I give back to the next generation.”