On Instagram, DeFeo posted a masked-up picture from the hospital. Celebrity followers from the lacrosse world (Paul Rabil, Taylor Cummings, Myles Jones) and beyond (Miami Dolphins lineman Austin Jackson) sounded off in the comments to wish her well. She posted a picture of her mother driving her home. On Twitter (1,700 followers) she shouted out former USC teammate, sometimes videography partner, forever friend, and suddenly West Coast emergency contact, Izzy McMahon, for being there for her.
“I was really worried actually,” said McMahon, who did not know she was DeFeo’s emergency contact until she texted from the hospital. “You see all these athletes and people our age with complications. We think we’re not high risk. We think we’re just able to bounce back.”
In some ways, the posts were a return to form for DeFeo. She built her brand by chronicling very personal details of her wacky world, being a fish out of water plunked into paradise with 30 other East Coast laxers. The pandemic forced her to scale back. Her personal brand is fun, showing her, in her own words, “galivanting around LA.” Staying the course didn’t seem right.
Which isn’t surprising if you know DeFeo. She adapts. A few months before the pandemic started, she left behind her college lacrosse career to pursue her dreams full time. In addition to her personal brand, she’s found success shooting pro athletes with Spellman Performance and for the Premier Lacrosse League.
“It’s the best decision I ever made,” DeFeo said. “I love going to work every day. I love getting to tell their stories.”
That doesn’t mean the decision was easy. DeFeo felt like she had one foot in and one foot out as a college athlete. McMahon said if anyone else had started talking about leaving lacrosse to chase some dream, she might have talked them out of it. But DeFeo was different.
“I knew Katie had something she would love to do,” McMahon said. “And I said, ‘If this is what you really want and you have a plan, I’m all for you and I’m going to support you.’ People were already asking her to shoot these big opportunities, but she couldn’t take them. I knew she was going to be OK.”
USC provided the perfect setting to chase her dream. Hollywood is just around the corner. There are elite athletes everywhere. But when DeFeo committed as a high school sophomore out of Severna Park (Md.), she had no idea what she wanted to do.
DeFeo had always had a camera in her hand. Ever since she was 10, when she got a little flip camera for Christmas and put a video of her dad making Thanksgiving turkey on YouTube (63,500 subscribers).
Music videos with friends followed. “Call Me Maybe.” The usual preteen fare. A video set to that song by Iyaz stands out, years later. She reversed each scene to show her friends dancing backward. Replays for “Replay.”
“I literally thought it was the most creative thing in the world,” DeFeo said. “I thought it was like groundbreaking stuff.”
She laughed, but it was an early indication of the groundbreaking stuff she was capable of. At USC, DeFeo would walk around with her friends — a group of lax girls with the same interests, from the same lacrosse towns back East, rolling through a literal paradise — and realize someone had to chronicle it.