Drenner’s family was supportive of him continuing his college career, as was Beckham’s mother, Katie, he said. And so he decided to give it a try — but every minute spent away from his son had to be productive. Time mattered so much more.
“Now that I had someone that was looking up to me and looking for me to raise them, I wanted to show him early on in his life that hard work will get you places and get you where you want to go,” he said. “I still had to go to practice and class, so that’s time away from a newborn child. I had to make sure that time was well spent. Every time I was working out or at practice, I was making sure I was giving it my absolute all, not just for myself, but for him as well.”
Drenner was always the hardest working player at practice, but that fall, he came back with a renewed purpose. A fire Nadelen hadn’t seen before.
“He doesn’t get rattled,” Nadelen said. “You take any kid in college and you say, ‘Hey, you’re going to be a father in the fall of your senior year.’ That can definitely be worrisome for many people, but he took it in stride and accepted the responsibility. That did inspire Ryan to want to be that much better. He had a little bit more to play for now. He had to balance being a new father with the academics and being a lacrosse player. He just raised himself to a whole new level.”
That hard work translated to results as the 2017 season progressed. Towson, with Drenner leading the offense, won the Colonial Athletic Association and prepared for another run at the NCAA tournament. Beckham was in attendance for every home game.
Towson made it to the final four for the first time since 2001, but fell short to Ohio State at Gillette Stadium. It was a historic run for the Tigers, but it provided even more fuel for Drenner in his lacrosse career.
“That was what I thought would be the pinnacle of my lacrosse career,” he said. “The opportunity was there to do something special. Just making it was special in its own way, but we didn’t finish our job. That left an unsatisfied taste in my mouth, and that’s why I continue to play. I want to win that championship.”
It’s a season that Nadelen will remember for the rest of his career, spearheaded by Drenner.
“I was just so impressed that a young man can perform at such a high level in such an intense atmosphere in his senior year,” Nadelen said. “He was the head of the team. Knowing what he was going through — dealing with a newborn and the academics and lacrosse — I’m just amazed at the way in which he did it, the success that he had and the humbleness that he always had during the process.”
As Towson made its way through the 2017 season, Drenner spoke with Nadelen and his coaching staff about professional lacrosse. It became a realistic goal as Drenner worked his way to becoming an All-American as a senior.
Drenner wasn’t sure if he’d crack a roster in the MLL, but he wanted to give it a shot. The schedule of a pro lacrosse player was heavy on nights and weekends, allowing him to be with Beckham during the day.
Drenner made the cut for the Florida Launch. There, he met fellow father Steven Brooks, who helped him navigate the rigors of raising a child and playing professional lacrosse.
He had interned at a mortgage company during college, but he was happy to find that lacrosse could become a career. He wasn’t comfortable in a desk job.
While playing in MLL, Drenner picked up various coaching jobs. He served as an assistant under Brandon Childs at York. He coached youth lacrosse at 3d Lacrosse.