My plan was to help capture every last possible moment. As I walked toward the field that day, I was nervous. It’s a situation no one can prepare for, that no one has ever had to deal with. I have worked with this team all 10 of my years at Lehigh but have never been so nervous for what I would see.
Once I arrived, I saw student-athletes practicing, passing the ball to each other, while in tears. I’ve never seen anything like it and hope to never see anything like it again. But you know what?
It was beautiful at the same time. It spoke volumes about what collegiate athletics is all about.
The NCAA mission statement is “to govern competition in a fair, safe, equitable and sportsmanlike manner, and to integrate intercollegiate athletics into higher education so that the educational experience of the student-athlete is paramount.”
Sports is obviously a significant aspect of the NCAA, but it’s not everything. These student-athletes are invested in not only their individual growth, but also their teammates’ growth and the success of the collective group.
You may have heard student-athletes turn into great employees post-graduation, and one of the reasons is the life skills from being part of a team. They know how to invest time and effort into something bigger than themselves. Most have been playing that sport their entire lives. It’s more than just a sport; it’s part of who they are.
And when it’s taken away in a flash, you have what was on display last Thursday afternoon.
The Mountain Hawks weren’t practicing to beat an opponent. They were having fun with each other. As the practice progressed, more and more tears were replaced by smiles. Sadness turned into an appreciation for one another. It was clear that the student-athletes were recognizing what was happening. It was the last time this team would ever be practicing together.
By the end of practice, there were many more smiles and laughs than tears.
Wanting to end with as much closure as possible, the team honored its seniors on Friday before everyone went their separate ways (due to Lehigh University moving to remote learning for the remainder of the semester).
In less than 24 hours, between Thursday and Friday, t-shirts were made which read, “Forever A Mountain Hawk.” The senior ceremony saw an underclassman read special messages for each senior over the public address. It wasn’t a “typical” Senior Day — no family was there, just each other — but given the circumstances, it was arguably more meaningful.
The genuine love for one another was as evident as ever.
Speaking of genuineness, the team also took time to express their appreciation for each senior. Taking turns, every student-athlete and coach spoke from the heart, in one of the most emotional parts of the two days.
For someone who has been around collegiate athletics for quite a while and experienced just about everything, these were two days I will never forget. Instead of focusing on the heartbreak of the situation, I choose to remember the lessons that Lehigh women’s lacrosse showed us.
This story isn’t meant to single out Lehigh women’s lacrosse, but rather use the team as one example of what was happening around the country. I can promise you that players on every team were honoring each other, especially the seniors, all in their own uniquely special ways.
When addressing her team on Friday morning after the senior recognition, associate head coach Sammy Cermack said something that should stick with everyone.
“This is why we do it,” referring to why the coaches are in this profession and why the student-athletes play.
“You don’t cry if it doesn’t mean something to you.”
Justin Lafleur is a senior assistant director of athletics at Lehigh.