Coaches found Adams’ stick expertise incredibly valuable at Navy as well. He strung sticks in ways to make it easier to change the pocket if they broke in a game, and Matthews looked forward to playing at home because of the advantage of having Adams on the sideline.
Having the Stick Doctor on their side always gave them an edge.
“At the Naval Academy, none of my guys had time to fool with their sticks,” Matthews said. “They couldn't do it in the day or at night or any other time, so they totally needed and depended on Tommy to be that guy for everybody on the team — varsity [and] JV, and that was 70 guys. He totally relieved all that pressure on them, because they could come every day and take their stick to Tommy and describe what it was doing, what was good, what was bad, and obviously he knew more about it than anybody else. [He] could take it and fix it and make it right for every individual player. To have that confidence for them and relief for them was just huge.”
Regardless of what the Navy team needed, Adams was happy to deliver. Famously, he’d promise to “have it tomorrow.”
“He loved serving the Midshipmen,” said Neil Duffy, co-captain of the 1984 team. “He was serving our best interests all the time. You’d go in the shop and there were screwdrivers, nuts and bolts, string all over the place. There was everything old school to keep us going.”
Duffy recalled Adams always trying new ideas and pushing the limits to develop equipment.
“He talked to me about trying to configure a retractable shaft,” Duffy said. “I was a defensive midfielder mostly. We had unlimited long poles on the field. We sometimes rode with nine long poles. My freshman year, I played defensive midfield with two long sticks. Now it’s one pole and two shorties. We had two poles out there, and I was the shortie. I would call it a tweener, but he made me a stick that was probably 50-some inches long. I was the short stick, but it was really an in-between one.”
Adams kept notes of each player’s stick preferences, and he was known for his remarkable attention to detail and turnaround time. After losing a game in overtime in which he broke his stick, a frustrated Ross threw it in a garbage can.
“The next morning, I went in the locker room to put some stuff away and there was a brand-new stick, strung just the way I liked it, ready to go,” Ross said. “That’s Tommy. He was always there, always ready, always lending support for you without hesitation.”
Adams had military precision with his organization. Every item was accounted for.
“Tommy kept incredulous records,” Tamulevich said. “On my return to the Naval Academy in 1986 some 18 years after graduating, Tommy asked me if I still had my Navy lacrosse stick and helmet I used in the North-South All-Star game in 1968. That was Tommy.”
When Meade returned to take over as head coach, Adams greeted him with a box of his personal items that he’d kept from when Meade was an assistant coach.
“I knew you’d be back,” Meade recalled Adams saying before adding, “You owe me a T-shirt.”
Adams’ care and concern didn’t stop when players graduated. He followed with pride their post-collegiate careers.
“When I played for the ’98 U.S. men’s national team, Dave Morrow created sticks that were exclusively for the members of Team USA,” Ross said. “They actually said ‘USA ’98’ on the side. The sticks that were given to us, they made a similar stick that they sold to the public. We felt special getting these sticks, and I actually gave that stick to Tommy after the World Games in ’98. The smile on his face, you could see the pride he felt knowing that I had accomplished that and played in those games, and that he was a part of my development in my four years there.”
Adams was active outside the team as well. In addition to volunteering in Boy Scouts and youth sports, Adams shared his stick expertise with the community.
“We used to have a summer camp, and it was pretty big,” Meade said. “We would have 600 kids a session for three sessions, and Tommy would just come with his wife Joyce and sit in a chair by the fields. Kids would come up from wherever and get their sticks fixed. He was like a doctor. Kids would come up and he’d say, ‘What’s wrong?’ And he’d fix it. He was a great man, and he really cared a lot about the kids and the coaches. He was very involved.”
“You couldn’t try harder at your job no matter what your job is,” Miles said. “It meant the world to him to run that equipment room.”
A memorial service for Adams will be held in Edgewater, Md., on Aug. 17. A celebration of his life is being planned as well.
“I’m sure these guys that played at Navy are going to remember Tommy forever,” Meade said. “Everybody’s going to have a story.”