On May 3, two high school boys’ lacrosse teams took the field at Benedictine Prep in Richmond, Va. — an experienced team from a private school versus the first-ever team from Highland Springs, a public school just 25 miles east.
Benedictine won handily 20-1. Afterward, a Benedictine player approached Highland Springs coach Steve Shoul with a more important observation.
The teams were mirror images of each other. Of Benedictine’s 25 players, just two, including the one who approached Shoul, were black. Of Highland Springs’ 26 players, just two were white.
“‘I’ve never been on a lacrosse field with this many African-Americans before,’” Shoul recalled the boy saying. “‘I’ve never seen this many African-Americans play lacrosse before. I wish I wasn’t a senior, because I would love to play next season with you.’ He was serious about leaving one of the nicer private schools and coming to our school, just so he could play lacrosse with kids of his color.”
Five months earlier, Shoul received a First Stick Program grant from US Lacrosse to help fund his school’s first boys’ lacrosse team. Of 1,800 students, zero had played the sport and just one had even seen it. So Shoul began introducing the sport by showing video clips of prominent black players like Myles Jones and Kyle Harrison.
“I was so excited and so happy that these kids were going to get an opportunity to play this game.” Shoul said. “I knew it would change kids.”
For one Highland Springs player, current senior Marques “MJ” Fleming, playing lacrosse was a transformational experience.
“I was basically lost,” he wrote in a letter to US Lacrosse.
Fleming said he took a year off from football to earn money for his family. He came home to his parents fighting as he tried to look after his younger brother. He received calls in the middle of the night and missed classes for weeks at a time to care for his bedridden uncle, who died in August.
“MJ was his primary health care,” Shoul said.
“I did my best,” Fleming said. “Lacrosse took my mind off any problems I had. Lacrosse became my true calling.”
As Fleming’s interest in lacrosse grew, his skills improved. Playing against Benedictine, he said, “It felt like we were a part of history. It made me feel like I was actually making a change.”
Then Shoul and Fleming made a deal.
If Fleming, a defenseman, made the travel team he was interested in, C2C Lacrosse, Shoul would foot the bill. He made it. Colleges, like Division III Wilkes in northeastern Pennsylvania, are already calling.
“That just warmed my heart knowing that I have somebody who is willing to do whatever he can to see me succeed,” Fleming said of Shoul. “I love my coach. He’s like a father to me.”
Fleming has focused on academics to raise his profile as a college lacrosse prospect. His GPA now stands at 3.2. He sees it going higher.
“Months ago, you wouldn’t hear me say I want to go to college,” Fleming said. “Now, I want to go to college. I want to major in business management. I actually want to go to college, graduate from college and continue to play lacrosse.”
“Because of lacrosse, [he has] a goal to reach,” Shoul said. “I’d be proud to call that kid my son.”